Lazy or anti-social or rude?
I wasn't a fan of text messaging in the past because it was cumbersome to do it on my old cell phone. Moreover, my service provider charged me an arm and a leg for it, since it was internet messaging, not SMS messaging. Anyhow, now my plan includes text messaging. Even though I am predominantly an "E" (extrovert), I can be anti-social (AKA "I" for introvert). Sometimes, I send a text message instead of picking up the phone.
Pros:
- Quick Q&A
- Short and sweet messages
- Friendly reminders
- Can avoid an unwanted conversation
- No interruptions
- Convenient in hush-hush areas, i.e. movie theatre, library
- Slow to type with thumbs
- Possible misunderstanding w/o body language
- Time lag between messages
- Evidence of communication (for nosy people to find)
- Ok or rude to pick up a phone call during a meeting, but unacceptable to respond to a text message





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