I'm a planner

Being a planner has it's pros and cons. The pros are fairly obvious, but the cons are not so much. At least, not so much until conflict arises. For example, I want to hang out with someone, but I already made plans with other friends. It's too hard to switch plans when someone contacts me late into the night already. I'm a busy girl and I like to go out, so planning is a must in my mind.

Being a planner = Not spontaneous. I need to be more spontaneous, I know. My friends and I were discussing this. We don't like it when guys contact us (i.e. text messages or leaves a voicemail) late into the night, because it seems like we were a last minute choice (AKA booty call). Of course, that might not be the guy's intention, but it's all about perception. Perhaps guys are simply not planners?? I've been noticing a trend lately. Hmm...